David Anderson Hooker and Elaine Zook Barge
In May, 2014, I had the privilege of attending the ‘Strategies for Trauma Awareness and Resilience’ (STAR) course at Eastern Mennonite University (EMU) in Harrisonburg, Virginia. I re-connected with Center for Justice and Peacebuilding (CJP) staff, who I love and admire from my graduate school days, and absorbed wisdom and knowledge from 2 experienced instructors and practitioners, David Anderson Hooker and Elaine Zook Barge. The class roster included 25 colleagues from around the world, several of whom came from countries that were, at that very moment, experiencing war. Some came from countries where equal treatment for women had yet to become part of the conversation. Some of the participants were Mennonite and one was ex-military. We all shared at least 2 commonalities, a personal experience of trauma and the desire to learn from each other.
During the 7 intense days of class, we studied cycles of trauma, symptoms of unhealed trauma, and “interrupting the transmission of woundedness” (James O’Dea, Cultivating Peace, 2012). We explored Truth, Mercy, Peace and Justice, through an exercise that personified those complicated concepts, and participated in a distress exercise that involved walking with a stone in our shoe. Throughout each enlightening, engaging and sometimes exhausting day I became, not only better at my job, but a more compassionate person.
CJP has created a world community that welcomes all people and a learning experience that demands engagement and growth. The Center for Conflict Resolution – Kansas City (CCR) is one of the many offshoots of the CJP community. CCR’s Conflict Resolution and Restorative Justice training and programs model what we have internalized from our time at CJP. To learn more about the Center for Justice and Peacebuilding go to www.emu.edu/cjp/. To learn more about the Center for Conflict Resolution in Kansas City go to www.ccrkc.org.
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As a training facilitator for the Center for Conflict Resolution, there is nothing more inspiring than to watch a curious and bright training participant fit the pieces together and create something new for themselves. I watched such a creation unfold with a young woman who attended training at Ivanhoe Neighborhood Association. The training was funded by a Jackson County COMBAT Prevention grant, and Ivanhoe graciously provided the perfect venue.
From the first time I met her, Jenika showed an acute interest in the principles of Restorative Justice. I watched her gather information, grapple with her own thoughts and feelings, and then incorporate the expanded perspective she gained to improve her interactions with others. During the second to the last class session, Jenika asked if she could present to the group the following week. Since one of the goals of the community trainings is capacity building, and since Jenika had earlier shared a desire to be a facilitator, we said “Sure!”
The following week, she began by saying she was nervous, although it didn’t show. She described some of the principles and values of the Restorative Justice way of life and then related it accurately and beautifully to her own experience. She spoke of the people that her past behaviors affected; her children, her family and her community, and shared a process for restitution and rebuilding. As her presentation came to a close, she listed elements that, for her, described restoration:
- Abuse free relationships
- Strong encouraging support system
- Honest, open relationship with authority figures
- Healthy decision making
- Positive Community Involvement
- Family building/Family trust
- Positive social network
- Positive credibility in my community
Living a restored life, one decision at a time! Welcome to the Peace Party!
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Understandings of justice, the needs of the victim, offender and the community when harm occurs, the role of shame and trauma in conflict and other pertinent conversations took place every Wednesday afternoon for five weeks at Journey to New Life, 3144 Troost, Kansas City, Missouri. People dedicated to getting their lives back on track after incarceration shared insights and struggles with each other, myself and Greg Winship, co-trainer for the Center for Conflict Resolution (CCR).
Made possible by a grant from the Community Capital Fund, a core group of 14 and 30 others who came to at least one session, shared a noon meal, then engaged in an interactive 3 hour session to explore choices we make in conflict, new perspectives and new skills. How does it change our perspective when we map a conflict using markers, a large piece of paper, circles and jagged lines? Working together in groups, participants discovered that a conflict that began with 2 people often grows to impact their families, the neighborhood and the whole community. Gaining a wider perspective proves our connectedness with each other and shows the importance of personal responsibility. Welcome to the Peace Party!
This is the peace building work of the Center for Conflict Resolution. You can join. Go to our website to attend a training, utilize services, volunteer or donate to a general fund or a specific program, http://www.ccrkc.org
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